Family planning is a good thing
And in particular, when you have the motives expressed in this article, you ought to be sent to jail. Because you're certainly going to be sent to hell.
But whatever your immediate emotional reaction to this, a moment's thought tells you that it's morally no different from any other abortion. No better, no worse. And since the whole point of human intelligence is that it frees us from relying merely on immediate emotional reaction, surely it's not too much to ask that we do it in this case too.
It's all inspired by this article in the NYT, about a woman who was pregnant with triplets and had two of them aborted.
My immediate response was, I cannot have triplets. I was not married; I lived in a five-story walk-up in the East Village; I worked freelance; and I would have to go on bed rest in March. I lecture at colleges, and my biggest months are March and April. I would have to give up my main income for the rest of the year. There was a part of me that was sure I could work around that. But it was a matter of, Do I want to?
I looked at Peter and asked the doctor: ''Is it possible to get rid of one of them? Or two of them?'' The obstetrician wasn't an expert in selective reduction, but she knew that with a shot of potassium chloride you could eliminate one or more.
I'm with Kevin. This is no big deal: it is no more an ethical problem than a woman who voluntarily chooses not to get pregnant every year and a half to two years during her fertile years. People have always made choices about reproduction—heck, practically every animal on the planet does. I think this woman made a sensible, rational decision to regulate her rate of reproduction, and should be commended rather than judged worthy of jail, let alone hell.
All I have to wonder is whether Unf is going to be a parent soon. If he has chosen to avoid the responsibility for trivial reasons, such as having career goals or thinking family planning is a good idea, he ought to condemn himself. He's shirking his obligation to have as many children as he is capable, after all.
See also Trish Wilson's Blog for some good discussion of this issue.


Dude, you know that there is a difference between choosing not to conceive and eliminating a fetus that has already been conceived, and almost every faith but the Catholic one believes that this is a fairly big distinction.